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Lexi Kenyon Brox

10 Steps to Your Ultimate Glow-Up Journey

Embarking on a glow-up journey is about so much more than just outward changes; it’s a transformation that begins from within. Whether you’re looking to boost confidence, redefine your mindset, or truly embody self-love, these steps are here to guide you. Read on to learn how to embrace a powerful inner and outer transformation, and tune into the latest podcast episode of Divine by Design for a deeper dive!


1. Cultivate Self-Awareness: Self-awareness is the foundation of any glow-up. Start by reconnecting with yourself on a deeper level, examining your thoughts, beliefs, and habits. Journaling is an excellent tool here—write down your inner dialogue, identify limiting beliefs, and explore where they come from. Ask yourself: Are these stories contributing to my growth? What new story could I create for myself?


2. Embrace Affirmations: Affirmations are powerful tools that shape your mindset. Even if they feel awkward or silly at first, say them daily. Try looking in the mirror and affirming, “I am beautiful because of who I am, not just how I look.” This practice rewrites old, limiting beliefs and sets you up with a foundation of self-love and positivity.


3. Challenge Negative Thoughts with Opposite Actions: Our brains are wired to fall back on familiar thought patterns, usually negative ones. So, each time a limiting belief or self-critical thought comes up, replace it with a positive affirmation. For example, if you think “I’ll never get there,” replace it with “I am making progress every day.” Consistency is key!


4. Dive Into Shadow Work: To truly glow up, it’s essential to confront and embrace the parts of ourselves we may have hidden away. This means examining insecurities, fears, and old traumas that continue to impact us. Journaling and reflecting on past experiences can be a transformative way to heal these parts and bring light to your whole self.


5. Prioritize Real Self-Care: Real self-care goes beyond occasional treats or bubble baths and involves a daily commitment to nurturing your mind, body, and spirit. Integrate joyful activities like spending time in nature, practicing yoga, and diving into creative hobbies. When you fill yourself up from within, you no longer feel the need to seek validation externally.


6. Surround Yourself with Positive Energy: The energy around you matters. Evaluate the relationships in your life—do they lift you up or drain your energy? Seek out connections that resonate with your goals and bring out the best in you. Remember: you vibrate at the frequency of the people you surround yourself with!


7. Let Go of What No Longer Aligns: Growth often involves letting go of people, habits, or environments that aren’t aligned with your highest self. While this can be painful and challenging, it opens up space for more meaningful connections and experiences. Honor your intuition and let go of what isn’t in alignment with your growth.


8. Use Gratitude & Manifestation: Manifestation is powerful when paired with gratitude. Write down your goals as if you’ve already achieved them. For example, “I am so grateful for my radiant energy and confidence.” This practice helps align your thoughts and feelings with the life you want to attract.


9. Embrace Your Natural Beauty: True confidence comes from accepting yourself as you are. Start small by spending a day makeup-free or taking breaks from filters on social media. As you allow yourself to be seen authentically, you’ll start to care less about others’ perceptions and more about your own self-acceptance.


10. Invest in Your Journey: If you’re ready to fully commit to your glow-up journey, consider investing in guidance that aligns with your goals. My “Return to Self” coaching program is designed to support you in self-discovery and empowerment through tools like astrology, personality assessments, and personalized support. Together, we'll uncover your unique strengths, goals, and inner power, and take actionable steps toward creating the life of your dreams.


Glow-ups aren’t just physical; they’re a journey to the heart of who you are. By committing to these steps, you’re aligning with the best version of yourself and setting the foundation for a life filled with confidence, self-love, and fulfillment. Listen to this week’s episode of Divine by Design for more insights, and visit returntoselfprogram.com if you’re interested in working together to start your glow-up journey!



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